Understanding the New Astral Concept of Pitrs – Are They Really Negative for Us?
Not all Pitrs are blessings—some might be the reason behind your struggles.
When we talk about Pitrs (ancestors), we often think of rituals, offerings, and paying respects. But in the deeper astral world, the reality of Pitrs is quite different from what most people believe. Bhaiya ji shared some powerful insights that reveal a new way of understanding Pitrs, and how they can affect our lives—sometimes in very troubling ways.
Let’s understand this in three stages:
Stage 1: When Pitras are Inside the House
Stage 1: When Pitrs are Inside the House
Bhaiya ji explains that some ancestors don’t leave after death—they stay in the house and take charge of one or more family members. Out of many ancestors in a family, the most powerful one becomes the ‘head’ and starts ruling over a chosen person. This person becomes their source of energy.
There was a real experience shared by Bhaiya ji:
A woman came to Ashaeiynn with severe back pain. When Gurudev was asked, he said that a Pitr had made that spot its “seat”. When Bhaiya ji spoke to the Pitr, they said they just wanted a place to sit! He asked them to shift to a place where the pain would be less, and they said they would move onto the lady’s future child. Once the baby is born, they would slowly settle inside the child and by the age of 15, take full control of their body.
How do they connect with the child?
When family members feed the baby and also offer bhog (food) to Pitrs during rituals, the Pitr connects through this energy exchange and settles inside the child.
These Pitrs also influence the family to do more worship and offer more bhog—not for divine blessings, but to absorb energy for themselves.
Stage 2: When Pitras are Outside the House
Sometimes, after death, the soul doesn’t join their ancestral group and instead wanders around. This happens if the final rituals aren’t done properly, or if the soul has unfulfilled desires.
These wandering spirits become negative for others, especially when they linger around cremation grounds. Tantriks often use them for their own rituals to control others through black magic.
Stage 3: When Pitras are Sent by Someone Else
Here comes the most dangerous part—Pitru Kriya. This is when someone, out of jealousy or revenge, uses a tantrik to send your own Pitrs to trouble you.
The tantrik offers food (bhog) to your Pitrs and convinces or forces them to attack your family. Since Pitrs are already connected to your bloodline, they don’t need any special permission to enter your home—even your family deity can’t stop them. Once inside, they may even bring other negative energies with them.
This is how some tantriks use Pitru Kriya to break peace and happiness in a family very quickly.
How to Get Rid of Pitras?
The first step is simple:
Stop invoking Pitrs.
When you stop calling them through rituals and offerings, half the problem is already solved.
Families that have the protection of strong deities—especially the Kuldevta (ancestral deity)—don’t face issues from Pitrs. Pitrs can’t enter such homes, and without them, no negativity can enter either.
When Pitrs stop affecting the house, the spiritual eye (drishti) of the family awakens faster.
Who Will Protect Us from Pitras?
Not your Gurudev, not any external force—it’s your Kuldevta who protects you from Pitrs.
Your Kuldevta is the one who has the authority over your family’s:
- Financial growth
- Prosperity
- Marriages
- Children
- Destiny
Pitrs only act based on their own hunger for energy. They don’t care if you are in pain or struggling. But your Kuldevta cares, and they are the ones who can truly guide and protect you.
Conclusion: Are Pitrs Always Good?
No, not necessarily. While we must respect our ancestors, we also need to understand their role in the astral world. Sometimes, they help—but often, they stick around to take energy, control our lives, or even harm us if misused by others.
That’s why knowing the truth, stopping unnecessary Pitr rituals, and connecting with your Kuldevta is the key to a peaceful, protected life.
